Many people have expressed
feelings of hopelessness since the results of the November 8th
election. (I confess that in spite of relative good fortune, I too, have succumbed
to this sorry state.
But hopelessness is not a
happy or productive mindset; the negative feeling ensnares us in an
ever-deepening rut from which it becomes difficult to escape. By contrast, hope
energizes us to find solutions.
Writing this blog has
helped me, and of course, I hope you readers find it useful too.
I’ve pondered the matter by
thinking about people who have found themselves in dire situations. Adam and Eve came to mind. Imagine falling
from bliss to our treacherous earth! How could they possibly right themselves?
Well, of course they didn’t keep a journal or if they did, we haven’t yet found
it.
However, several centuries
ago, the great English poet John Milton (1608-74) pondered the predicament of
the unfortunate couple. He suggests a mindset that may have helped the
unfortunate couple process their loss. In Paradise
Lost,
He writes,
The mind is its own
place, and in itself
Can make a heav’n of
hell, a hell of heav’n.
In other words, Milton
understood the amazing power of the human mind to reframe a drastic situation,
to render it bearable, or even beyond, to transform it to its opposite.
Then I thought of Dr. Viktor Frankl (1905-97) who survived imprisonment in the
concentration camps in Nazi Germany. In Man’s Search
for Meaning, he writes, “When we are no longer able to change a situation,
we are challenged to change ourselves.” He continues, “Everything can be taken
from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s
attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
He found the strength to
fight to stay alive and maintain hope by thinking of the love he had for his
wife. Love is a sustaining force. In his 1990 seminal book Love and its Place in Nature, Jonathan Lear elaborates on the theme
of love for a person (or people), places and things (like music and art). Love
goes far in opening avenues of hope.
Taking action is another
method that can lead us from the darkness of hopelessness into the light of
hope. For example, Mr. G., phoned
his state representative to voice his complaint about Congress’s intention to
disband its independent ethics committee. Indeed, according to the news, many
others acted similarly and changed the outcome.
Here are some suggestions
that I’ve found helpful in combating hopelessness:
Meditate
Choose advisers carefully.
Capitalize on luck.
Dismiss the naysayers.
Focus on positive dreams.
Transform negative to
positive thinking.
Work to turn a loss to an
advantage.
Take action.
Physical exercise
(boosts endorphins).
Conclusion: We can
rescue ourselves from the deepening rut of hopelessness through loving and
taking action.
Dear Reader: I look forward
to your responses.
jsimon145@gmail.com
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